How then can one make oneself more acceptable to the society, when people end up misconducting his or her reserved nature as snobbishness and avoid him or her?
By accepting yourself!
I am no motivational speaker, to be able to stand to your question. But, I am an ordinary person who has lived and experienced, what we actually call ‘Life’. And out of my insight into this life, from tales I have heard and from the tales i dictate, this is what I have to say.
The society treats us the way we treat ourselves. So if there is a mislay in the way others are conducting themselves towards us, it’s time to lay stronger and firmer bricks of self-assurance, aplomb, sangfroid and collectedness.
Stop looking for people who shall accept you, at first.
Start looking for yourself. Accept the set fact no one is ever going to accept you as you are. And, there is a reason for this. People often fear accepting people who are better and more capable, in order to save themselves their domain-notability.
But the truth is inescapable. And at last, iff you know your worth then this is what happens. Even if they might be envious of you, they may mis-judge you in the beginning and even think that you are snobbish, they will wish to be at your place and/or with you.
Being open hearted and flexible to the world at large is good. But don’t forget to remember : Listen to every heart, but follow only yours.
It is the bravest thing one can ever do.
One life is all we have and we live it as we believe in living it. But to sacrifice what you are and to live without belief, that is a fate more terrible than dying.
~ Joan of Arc
I may continue on this, but in a while.
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