All relationships sprout somewhere from your relationship with yourself…

All relationships sprout somewhere from your relationship with yourself…
Kisi ne Sahi kaha h, if you don’t love yourself, you can’t love anyone else too…
Find time to work on your relationship with yourself someday, maybe every day. And, sometime, you’ll realize it that it isn’t that difficult to be ‘me’ (you, yourself)!

And ya. Don’t get me wrong. I am not at all asking you to be selfish. Not in the least am I asking you to hurt others, or do wrong things. But trust me, as you dig deep into yourself you will be able to make out the magic that was long hidden behind the thick layers of webs and specks of dirt. Lying somewhere deep within you is the real you, beautiful, loving, lovely, and magical.
Certainly, most of the time the reason for our distressed relationship with others is in effect our distressed relationship with ourselves. Most of us complain that they don’t respect us. Don’t think as nicely of us as they should. Don’t respect our personal columns, etc. Whereas perhaps if you ever take out some time to notice, you will find they simply treat you the way you treat yourselves. They think about you merely the way you think of yourselves. And unquestionably, in some way or the other you inspire others to deal with you the way you deal with yourself!
Allow me to ask you a question. Have you ever met a person whom you greatly honor? If yes then, sit down. Roll back the reel of your memory and see how the person treated themselves when you first saw them. Uhmm.. hmm. I hope you remember how nicely the person thought of herself, how beautifully she carried herself, and how you could feel the charm and the warmth even from a distance.
Therefore, I am bound to repeat that indeed ‘All relationships sprout somewhere from our relationship with ourselves. ‘So the next time you find someone inappropriate towards you, take it as a message. The divine is guiding you that you need to sort out things with yourself. 
Life is beautiful. It is finite. Life is impermanent. Life lasts for some finite chapters in a book, even if they number in thousands, which is rarely the case. The number of chapters however may vary. But as important is the entry of the protagonist in a book, as necessary is her exit to be, in some chapters to come no matter how distant or close. 
Jo aya hai, use jaana bhi padega is Duniya se. So boss, don’t waste much time before you begin this task of finding yourself and then falling for yourself and loving yourself. You just have to do the former, and the love affair automatically follows.
Presently, you may think differently. And I totally respect that. But, before you accept not to take this suggestion, at least give it a try. 

Previously, I was watching the movie Shakuntla Devi, when I verily felt like writing this blog. The plot of the movie revolves around the strained relationship between a mother and a daughter bringing out a beautiful message, close to what we were talking about from the very first line.

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